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Reality Check ☆★☆★
Gender:male
Age:100
Nationality  : American
Location:
 Shenzhen, China
Last login: 8th February 2010
Reality Check is: still choosing the Cost of Honesty in omnia paratus, over facade mileage. 
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MODUS OPERANDI: Facta, non verba - *Actions. Not words.*
REAL IDENTITY: Access Denied
REASON: Privileged Information
REAL PHOTO: Not that obsessed with images of myself. Are you?
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Nota bene: (GENUINE PEOPLE - wanted)
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One of the earliest observations I made about the Internet — and it has stood the test of time — is that it's full of "chaff" as opposed to yes, "wheat". Driven by people, most things you come across are ephemeral. Anybody is a "friend" until deleted with the click of a mouse. Isn't that funny? I exist not to "react" to a stranger or zombie's itch for instant gratification, data, or pigeonholing me to appease one's stereotypes, ignorance, or miseducation. Rather: to live off my own complex inbox and to-do list of values and aspirations a huge chunk of which involve sharing and working with genuinely progressive "hands-on" people. Everybody is responsible for their own choices, excuses, self-scrutiny and vision—or lack thereof. Read the "fineprint" because I have always disappointed those who read but then mistook my words as...words.

As to gentleness or generosity, it'd be disingenuous of me to claim "I'm a kind person" as so many internet profiles do. One of the surest tests of kindness is "the test" of friendship.

I believe if you consider yourself a friend (as opposed to an "acquaintance"), family, or companion, then you must make yourself useful in all human endeavours. Otherwise, you're fake. And the word "friend" is not something I throw around like a frisbee unless you can back up your words and show me reliability like I can break my back exemplifying the same to you, your loved ones, or helpless stranger. For example, I see nothing practical or "friendly" about turning off all phone lines to selfishly enjoy my sleep while my family or "friend" in need try without success to reach me at 3AM. 'Got the gist? Therefore, with honesty of purpose and graciousness, have the courage and social skills to engage me in constructive conversation. But bear in mind: except for my PII (personally identifiable information), what you see here is precisely what you get. I am a direct, detail-oriented, straight-shooting, say it plain sort of fellow. I do not suffer fools (& phonies) gladly. And I take a good constructive critical jab or jibe anytime even as I am known to dish out the same without hesitation — in good faith or nasty, if pushed. That means, you probably won't like me if you have a naive, bigoted, nationalistic, or cultivate an overly superficial view of the world — and too much in love with yourself. GENUINE PEOPLE (only) wanted.
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2) http://fortisestveritas.spaces.live.com
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Eye Colour Brown
Hair Colour Black
Build Athletic
Height 5' 8' (173 cm)
Occupation Legal
Education Doctorate/Ph.D
Religion Christianity
Ethnic Origin African American

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Sarafina!(1992),The Dark Knight & Slumdog Millionaire(2008), Legends of the Fall(1995);Tsotsi (2005)
Type of music
Lounge,Ethnic,Classical,Acid/Smooth Jazz/Blue note;Folk; Soul,Reggae,& Rock; Gospel & Rap/H.Hp.
Song
Perfect quietude+dose of nature+Filmscore+ColdPlay, Sade, Celtic, Chants/Classics/Jazz/Enigma etc.
Band/Group
Live Space: "Fortis est veritas" via "Fortis est Veritas (alpha)"
Person
My late grandmum (maternal) - God rest her soul. And any human "vulcan" with a "can-do" spirit.
Quote
To be capable of unreservedly and readily indicting oneself with a view to contributing to human happiness, is peace. Peace is not a wordy wish. Nor does it dwell amidst the façade of politically, personally, and religiously choreographed harmony
Place to party
Party?? What am I trying to prove? Quiet storms need no parties!! I'm a practicing intellectual, antinationalist & humanitarian. And façade, exhibitionist self-confidence & insecurity are what I see in uploading photos of myself/body for flattery
Place to relax
Home. And around positive, real genuine - all-inclusive, down to earth people. Animals too, like dogs. Lions and phonies, maybe not.
Place to holiday
Seriously, I dunno. I never had one eventhough those who don't know better think I am well-travelled. So teach me. Give me names, places, coupons, tickets, vouchers - please!
Book
Long list | MSN Space e.g.|"When Bad Things Happen to Good People" (2004), by Harold S. Kushner
Sport
Driving & Auto Racing; Boxing; Production Music Compilation; Soccer, Bad Minton+Ping Pong & Snooker.

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